Allow me to honour you if you would like to talk to me.

You understand that we will talk about you and your need to connect to the deepest meaning in your life.

You – by now – have seen that goal-setting, high fives, motivational, marketing speak and pumping the iron still doesn’t fill the gap, haven’t you? If you are drawn to my work and my life story, perhaps you are the child of mixed heritage, or maybe the spouse/lover or parent of somebody who is.

Maybe you are white, black or anything else. It just doesn’t matter, how could it?

Talking to me is not about life coaching, or even spiritual life coaching, it is about my listening and your taking from me into the depths of your own being as you recognise yourself through me.

I don’t like the word ‘coach’ – it lacks love …

I will hold you in a sacred cradle as we share your losses, fears, confusions (about religion, culture, children, parent-in-laws … the whole gamut of human life) whether you are from the East, West, North or South and ESPECIALLY if you are somewhere in between …

We are going to be sharing the deepest expression of love as you start to heal yourself – you give me the ultimate privilege to be part of that,

My fees for 60 minutes are $197 via Zoom, $1000 for 6 x 60 minutes, payable through PayPal. I will just ask you to send through a little bio before so I can have you in my thoughts before we meet.

I am here any time for you. Write to me below.

Loving you,



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Our Publications

Papa, Who Am I?

In this short personal story, Selima Gurtler weaves the passage of her own early life as a solitary cross-cultured child born into a bigoted and racist London in the 1950s and her life search to find herself and to answer the question: “Who am I?”

Extending Life

Away from her usual writing-style, Selima opens her diaries and research from all her travels to explain to us the hidden secrets of longevity and the elixir of life.

Viceroys of India

Written by Selima's father in 1983, and edited by her for modern readership. With letters of commendation from Her Majesty Queen Elizabeth's office and other famous public figures.